This is Allie. She is a little girl that goes to the same daycare as Sarah. She also attends preschool with Sarah. She is truly one of the sweetest children I have ever met!
I can safely say that this is Sarah's first best friend. Chris says that Allie is patiently waiting for Sarah at the door of Mrs. Joan's house every morning when he drops her off. Then they spend a few minutes screaming, dancing, and hugging one another until he leaves. Here is proof of their undying friendship.
Her terror is evident from the moment she walked out. She was so scared that the tears were welling up, but no sound came out. She did not move unless someone touched her.
Here is a grainy video taken from my digital camera. The teachers tried to calm her, but it wasn't working.
She did tough it out for a few minutes, but her fears got the best of her when her eyes met mine (I knew it was over). She said in a shaky voice "I want my Mommy". She came off the stage and into my lap. I tried to coax her back on stage to no avail. She said "It is so big". I was torn between telling her everything was fine, "just stay with me" and "get back on that stage". I decided to compromise. I told her that if she would walk back up on stage, I would squat down behind her. She lit up!
Here is a grainy video taken from my digital camera. The teachers tried to calm her, but it wasn't working.
She did tough it out for a few minutes, but her fears got the best of her when her eyes met mine (I knew it was over). She said in a shaky voice "I want my Mommy". She came off the stage and into my lap. I tried to coax her back on stage to no avail. She said "It is so big". I was torn between telling her everything was fine, "just stay with me" and "get back on that stage". I decided to compromise. I told her that if she would walk back up on stage, I would squat down behind her. She lit up!
As you can see, I did climb on stage and sat right down behind her. She finished the play with a smile on her face! I hope this was a wise Mom moment. It made sense at the time. We shall see when the next play comes along...
This is Zoe, another little girl who attends Joan's daycare.
All in all, it was a fun night with friends and family. Sarah fought her fears and went home feeling successful. I cannot ask for more.
Until next time,
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